Hey all you working moms, I'm with you! This is CRAZY!
As working moms start to juggle the unique combination of work and kids "attending" school, one thing is clear: This is not going to be easy! Instead of driving yourself crazy, I propose that we give ourselves and each other a major dose of compassion (and a lot of whiskey). Not only are we trying to hold it all together, do a good job, make sure our kids actually learn something, feed everyone a good meal and maybe even take care of ourselves we're also facing a very unique set of biases in the workplace.
Would you believe that hard working moms like you and me earn an average of 4% less for every child we have? That means a mother of 2 is earning nearly 10% less than a childless woman (who is likely earning significantly less than a man doing that same job)! Here's another crazy fact...One study by Shelley Correll, Stephen Benard, and In Paik found that a woman with children was 79% less likely to be hired than one without children. A mother was half as likely to be promoted as a childless woman, was offered $11,000 less in salary, on average, and was held to higher performance and punctuality standards!
UGH!!
Stay strong ladies!
Tune in to our podcast on Friday to listen to our exploration of mom bias, including the teeny tiny box that we put moms in. All of our episodes can be found at https://yougettowork.com or whoever you get your pods.